How the Twin Flame Relationship is Ultimately an Illusion

It is no doubt ironic that this insight occurred on the recent new moon in Aries. In esoteric Astrology Aries represents the manifestation of spirit through the soul. Aries is the sacred warrior that protects the cosmic order of life and is centred on self-awareness. Aries allows us to know the uttermost, the alpha and the omega, the beginning and the end. Aries awakens the secret of cycles, the will to return to source and the determination to achieve liberation.

My Twin Flame journey began in 2013 during a pivotal crisis which ultimately lead me to a deeper understanding of my own soul path. It was whilst I was in a deep inner conflict, doubt and questioning that the realm of spirit spoke to me telepathically via a Tree Spirit. Instead of having the courage to face my own adversity, I projected my trauma outside of myself and onto the one I love. The psyche is incredibly clever at displacing what it cannot cope with and somehow making it someone else’s fault. Instead for me spirit had other ideas. Making me accountable for my own suffering and bringing me to a higher truth, this tree spirit told me that I was exactly where I needed to be and that my husband was my Twin Flame. This was the first time I had ever come across this term and phenomena. I had to google the meaning and it took me several months to work out its magnitude. Since then I have provided healing and soul guidance to many twin flames supporting their own purification and transformational process.

Along the way I have encountered those who have been deeply traumatised by the Twin Flame relationship. The twin flame relationship has the phenomena of accelerating and evolving us on a spiritual level at quite a speed, catapulting us into a deep alchemical process. Ultimately we will face all that is left unhealed and also be called to be the Shepherd of the New Earth. It is through this process that the universe accommodates manifestation through its connection with consciousness. Consciousness literally changes the world. But what about the suffering and inner turmoil it would also create? What about the deep longing for union when union was not possible? What about the missing soul fragments and the very rare false twin flame scenarios experienced in my healing clinic? Many parts of it sat so uncomfortably with me over the years, much of which I did not have the capacity to understand. I would often ponder why did this tree spirit open me up to this world? Was it really my path to undertake? Why is the twin flame phenomena so wide spread in the collective consciousness? Why are so many twin flames drawn to me? There seemed to be a missing link.

I have come to understand this. As part of our growth my husband and I, with each of us emitting frequencies of our soul group, planned to evolve our soul group by coming together for sacred marriage and healing the divine masculine and divine feminine aspects of SELF for our OWN evolution. I previously thought the twin flame journey was about creating the sacred marriage, the merging of the polarities, the two counterparts creating a whole. This is not the case. The true purpose of the union is simply to create wholeness in ONSELF. It is an initiation.

The twin flame meeting/connection/union ignites the purification and transformational process for each individual counterpart, yet they each must do this sacred work for themselves, they cannot do it for each other. The inner processing, purification and illumination must come from within, no one can do this for us. Self-mastery takes us into the essence of our own heart, a sacred chamber that is ours alone. True ascension starts in the heart, with the mind and body following. Creating harmony in the heart is the single most important aspect to balancing the polarities that separate and divide. No one needs to be a twin flame or to have a twin flame to undertake this sacred spiritual journey. It is every man and woman’s path if they so wish. Anyone can seek to combine the divine template of the feminine and masculine energies of SELF. Expansion unfolds when the heart is the altar and the body is the temple to the essence of spirit that resides in all of us. To enlighten the body one must enlighten the heart. All this leads to higher light, higher wisdom, higher love and higher truth. The relationship we cultivate with ourselves is the single most important relationship we will ever have, we need no-one outside of ourselves to complete us. It is only through the doorway of the heart that you unite with the peace inside of you.

Once the sacred marriage of SELF has occurred the twin flame illusion becomes obsolete as the merging of the polarities has already taken place. From this point of wholeness you are an integrated being – you are a balance of the polarities reflecting the totality of source. From this space you can spiral up the ascension path to a more correct and inclusive view that twin flames are ultimately an illusion. We begin to see that this has been used as a concept constructed under karmic conditions and contracts via your soul group for the evolution of your soul. Once you have arrived at this evolutionary understanding there is nothing outside of yourself that makes you whole. This is one of the last phases of the ascension cycle – healing the wounded aspects of the divine feminine and divine masculine aspects of SELF. Balancing the frequencies of masculine and feminine energies is in no way limited to a twin flame union, anyone can do this. Those experiencing a twin flame connection have intended to do so under the governance of their soul contracts as a way of helping each other evolve. The soul contract is to ignite that healing process and to begin the sacred marriage within the SELF – irrespective of being in union or not. This is not to say a union will or will not occur. What I am saying is that the true work is done within the SELF. This is the purpose of the initiation – not the sacred union of the divine counterparts – rather the merger within the SELF.

Once this sacred marriage within SELF occurs my only guess is that we are able to transcend duality, the energies that construct this dimensional reality. There is no separateness – there is no you – there is no other. The illusion of separateness falls away and all that is left is all encompassing and all inclusive. The soul group has transcended duality – what it came here to master. And yet no doubt this won’t entirely be the correct view either – there will be the next level of view to master and so the cycle goes until we merge back into the primordial energies in which we sprang. Again my guess here is that the primordial energies at the highest level are neither masculine nor feminine, rather energy at its purest form.

The twin flame is but one message sent to us as an initiation to heal the divine masculine and divine feminine aspects of SELF. It has been orchestrated by the soul in this evolutionary time of transformation so we can transcend the gateways that closed our consciousness off to the gifts of the angelic light. I now understand what I channelled several years ago in regards to the frequency of the twin flame bridging us to the Angelic realm through dimensional energies. It is time for the re-seeding of this frequency and for us to remember our own light dynamics. This is the evolution of the collective consciousness. Such a shift gives us the potential to recreate ourselves in an entirely new paradigm. We become the divine seeds of light itself.

I’m not saying the twin flame vibration isn’t powerful – I have worked with it enough to know that it truly is, what I am saying is that it is not an entirely correct view or the pinnacle of this time of transition and transformation. It is a doorway to the gifts of angelic light, it is the reopening of the gateway that the ancients predicted would open as the new world age births the emergence of a new species of light. The power lies in the integration of the sacred masculine and feminine polarities within ourselves. This is the victory of light over matter, the enlightenment and the ascension.

The initiation of the twin flame connection activates the connection to your monadic family and all you have ever been, joining with the light of all your soul extensions as you merge back to source. I believe it to be some of the last step’s in the soul’s ascension as it merges into one giant spark, pouring into the light of the monad – the soul family. Once that occurs it will then no doubt rebirth itself into its next evolutionary cycle and so consciousness continues.

As the ascension of consciousness reaches new pinnacles of understanding new knowledge and wisdom creates a new landscape that is forever changing. We continue to move into a higher truth that reflects where we are on the path.  The condition of our world depends upon the condition of the consciousness of our souls.

Not everyone’s soul path is to experience the twin flame phenomena. There are many paths to awakening the seed of divinity in all of us. There are different initiations along the path – so don’t waste your precious time or energy in trying to manifest your divine counterpart when you may not even have one, especially when the main purpose is the integrated balance of the masculine and feminine polarities within the self. Don’t suffer with heartache over not being able to physically merge or unite with your twin flame as that may not be your intended path. Instead develop the integrated, sacred and divine SELF – complete unto itself.

 

By Kristy Allan – Holistic and Soul Healer  

 

Shamanic Sound, Light and Bodywork Therapy

Shamanic sound, light and bodywork therapy is a therapy combining sound, light and bodywork to bring the mind, body and spirit into greater balance and equilibrium.

Sound, vibration and frequency all have a profound impact on us, in fact harmonics and resonance govern our very existence, forming the building blocks of our reality. Everything we experience is made up of energy, frequency, vibration and sound.

Due to our vibrational nature, sound and light therapy has immense healing and transformational power. I have been guided by spirit to create a healing therapy that incorporates these simple yet effective elements to restore physiological wellbeing. This form of healing specialises in its capacity to bring higher vibrational frequencies into the chakra, meridian and nadi systems for intelligent use by the physical body.

Sound Healing

Much has been written regarding the power of sound and its ability to heal. Sound has the ability to impact us right down to our metabolic processes and DNA. One just has to look to the science of cymatics, the visual representation of the vibrational effect of sound on matter, to get a clear picture on how sound can create a powerful reorganisation and recalibration at the physical level.

I wanted to birth my own sound healing album with specific harmonics and frequencies, that coherently interfaces with the chakra and energetic system using traditional healing musical instruments, such as the African djembe drum and Kora, Australian didgeridoo, Native American flute, crystal singing bowls and crystal harp just to name a few. I entrusted this processes to good friend and talented sound healer Steve Davies to compile and help produce the shamanic sound journey I had envisioned. He has done a remarkable job both musically and vibrationally.

Light Therapy

Light/colour therapy, otherwise known as chromotherapy has been used in ancient civilisations and heralded as a potent healing tool. Light is the essential spiritual power that exists within us. Molecular structures within the body such as DNA, RNA and proteins, respond to the penetration of light particles, first within the auric field and then secondly by the etheric body. The physical body then transduces these frequencies into usable particles to be used for repairing and regenerating damaged biological processes within the numerous electrical reactions that occur within normal physiology.  The light frequencies of the visible colour spectrum radiate intelligent energy that the life force interprets, then sends out as specific instructions for the healing and regenerating of the physical body. Each colour frequency has specific healing qualities imbued with cohesive information on how best to utilise the radiation for healing purposes. Light has its own intelligence and lifeform, and when interpreted by the body can produce remarkable healing effects on the physical and energetic body. Light is a carrier and as such it is able to carry the healing properties of the sound directly into the subtle and physical bodies.

Bodywork Therapy

Touch by itself is so therapeutic in nature, it induces deep relaxation and feelings of nurturance, love and care. I have channelled a sequence of hand postures which stimulate different energy systems, gently opening up these subtle centres so that they are able to transduce the energy of sound and light into usable energy for the healing and regeneration of the physical body. This allows for the greater transmutation of the more stubborn and engrained patterns that often get locked in at a cellular level and crystallise within the physical body.

Deep Relaxation and Healing

The Shamanic sound, light and bodywork therapy is extremely relaxing, often the deeper state of relaxation the more profound the healing. It is in this deep state of rest the healing takes place, clearing any blocks in the auric field so that the healing and regenerative energies can be anchored into the physical and most densest layer of our being.

Throughout the session the client often gets to experience the wisdom of the sacred and silent mind. It is in this silence that the emergence of the pure and spiritual mind is possible, it is the bridge or vehicle that transcends the barriers of ego and thought and opens a clear communication with spirit, where we enter into the realms of the unseen and eternal.

The power of Sacred Intention

Like everything meaningful I do, it is imbued with sacred intention. Focused and deliberate intention is such a powerful force as it carries through the energy and vibration of what has been intended. I wanted to share the intention and energy that was put into the making of the sound healing journey and was the guidelines I gave to Steve Davies to interpret into sound. I completely surrendered it to spirit. Beautifully Steve Davies decided to do a detox to prepare, he called on his interdimensional Shaman to guide him and asked that each chakra track be the most potent and expansive. He surrendered to his own spirit and channelled the music for me. Above all, may my clients always experience what they need most and bring their own sacred intention into their journey.

Base/Earth star Chakra

• Sacred connection to our Mother Earth – her heart, her womb, her frequency, her truth, her immense healing and regenerative capabilities
• Tribal ties to our ancestors and the wisdom and medicine they carry that we can access thru cellular memory & the collective consciousness – let us reawaken and remember the time where we were ONE with nature and all life forms
• To fully come into the body, our physicality, to honour this sacred vessel , to be proud of it, to respect it, to love it, to feel safe in it, to feel secure in it, to own it proudly, to realise its power and potential to feel, to know, to experience
• Invoking and connecting to the Devic realm – the benevolent nature and plant spirits – the mineral kingdom – to call forth their potent healing frequencies to help support and guide this session

 

Sacral Chakra

• Awakening and heightening our capacity to feel things deeply – our senses, sensuality, sexuality, connection to self – connection to other, to be moved by life, the music, the breath, the sacredness and simplicity of it all – to fully come into feeling (out of mind, ego – into heart into feeling)
• To allow ourselves to feel and process that in which needs to be felt and expressed – to feel held enough to be able to go there, to surrender and trust in the healing process
• Calling forth our creative power & potential
• Honouring, acknowledging and healing our divine feminine – Sister Moon

 

Solar Plexus

• Invoking the inner healer and shaman within, getting in touch with our higher power, our personal power, our strength, our courage our conviction to be the best version of ourselves we can be – to rise – to conquer
• To journey into the shadow – to meet with it, to face it, to not be afraid of it, to learn from it and realise it carries to your wisdom and can be your most potent medicine
• Honouring, acknowledging and healing our divine masculine – Brother Sun

 

Heart Chakra

• To enter into the sacred chamber of the heart
• To immerse and bathe ourselves in heart medicine – the medicine that can heal all wounds, even the deepest.
• To allow ourselves to meld and merge with a divine power and force far greater than our own – to feel our vastness and expansion into something much bigger
• To see all as sacred and all as ONE
• To feel and know all of this at a cellular level

 

Throat Chakra

• To come into our heightened power and potential thru the crossing of the rainbow bridge
• To find our authentic voice and expression
• To have the clarity and conviction to express and birth our true selves
• To be able to manifest our soul’s path and purpose

 

Third Eye

• To see and know our true wisdom and that ALL lies within
• To tap into our vast knowingness and intuition – our higher source of knowing that goes beyond the intellect
• Profound visions and insights
• A sacred container to meet with any spirit guides, beings, totems, power animals, allies
• Accessing a higher source of creativity, knowledge, wisdom

 

Crown Chakra

• Allowing our soul to resonate with our core truth
• To feel the divine’s presence that lives in all things
• To transcend beyond the physical to experience the non-physical
• To experience the void – the emptiness and bliss of no-mind

 

Soul Star / Cosmic Chakra

• To be held and healed by the celestial realms, angelics, benevolent star beings, masters etc
• To vibrate at a much higher frequency
• To flow in divine unison, mysticism and magic
• To remember more of who you are and your sacred purpose for being here
• To embody all of the lessons and wisdom experienced above and to integrate and embody that which needs to be integrated and embodied.
• To know the alchemy of transformation

 

This is the space I hold for YOU…